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吐出謊言的，終不能逃脫 「 誠實見證人不說謊話；假見證人吐出謊言。」（箴言十四章 5 節）「你們的話，是，就說是；不是，就說不是；若再多說就是出於那惡者。」（馬太福音五章 37 節）這兩節經文，以及 「誠實為上策」（ Honesty is the best policy ）這一句西方成語，大家都耳熟能詳，也都清楚明白其所訴說的道理。 下面幾種靠嘴巴賺錢的人，修行人不宜從事： (1) 律師、檢察官：古人說：「一世官，九世牛。」從事此業的人，往往一句話就可判人生死，應注意客觀、公平，不要有賄賂行為。如果在權勢上搞是非，容易草菅人命。 (2) 算命的：算命的人常會說：「你如果不怎樣，這是「惡口」。從事此種行業的人，講話要宛轉，客觀的建議就好。」 (3) 風水師：容易說「如果你不修，幾年後就會如何如何」的鐵斷語、刺傷別人。 (4) 道士：祖先過世，請道士做法事超渡。如果他真能超渡，閻王豈不怕他了嗎？三世因果業力又將如何清算？這只是習俗讓人心安而巳。如要念經，要找持齋修行的。沒有持齋的，自己的罪業一大堆，自己都渡不了，如何能超渡別人？

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誰封殺了高中生？ 母校口中「成績優秀，熱心分享學習心得，人緣好、深受師生喜愛」的學生，因為填寫學習歷程時，將「單場優秀辯士」誇大為「最佳辯士」，雖經學生本人坦承錯誤並道歉，仍遭正取的四所醫學院取消錄取資格！ 這名從雲端被摔落地面的高中生，一夜之間面臨無校可念、在網上被撻伐、連學校都不敢去、12年苦讀夢想成空的窘境，他應該非常懊惱自己為何犯了一個低級的錯誤，他應該更沮喪為何因為這樣，他被教育體系全盤抹煞了他的努力？ 這個引起的廣大關注的事件，有幾個地方可以思考， 1，「學習歷程」真能反映真實？ 原本的目的是呈現學生的多元表現和潛力，但這個部分難以查證，為了提高這個項目的成績，每個學生都會盡量優化，有資源的學生比較容易在這個部分得到優勢，而審查時候老師的「參考」，就存在很大一部分的心證。 「學習歷程」的意義和分數佔比應公開討論。 2，懲處是否符合比例原則？ 四所醫學院快速地做成了一刀切的決定，究竟真的認為學生犯的錯沒有辦法給予彌補的空間？還只是畏懼輿論/網攻的壓力，也不想收別校已取消錄取的學生？這個處理的過程，看不到教育體系的高度、細膩和彈性，殊為可惜。 3，這個事件不應簡化為選邊站，應該成為有意義的「社會共同教育」！ 錯了就是錯了，但老師們不是都說「人誰無過，過而能改，善莫大焉」嗎？ 因為填寫學習歷程的缺失，而讓學生一刀斃命，這恐怕還是國內第一樁吧？！ 亡羊補牢，猶未晚矣。 台大校長陳文章建議該生努力準備分科測驗，用實力為自己說話。高中母校也表示會關注學生的身心狀況，給予必要的協助。 培育人才是台灣重要而持續的工程，任何一位努力前進的學子，出現的任何挫折，我們都應當從中學習並關懷，而不是事不關己，冷眼旁觀！

職場禁忌，不看完吃虧的是你：1.不要介紹朋友去自己所在的公司上班。 2.辭職了就不要再回去，同一家公司不要去第2次。 3.下班回家后，不要給領導發消息了。領導大多數會覺得你裝模做樣。 4.不要反感拍領導馬pi的人，這是個謀生的技能，而且要早點學會 5.別當眾拆穿別人的謊言，看破別說破，只是智謀。 6.一律不要借釘戔給同事，就算對方給你下跪，都別搭理他。 7.同事不會是朋友，這也是每個人離職后的深刻體會。 8.聽來的話能有一半能相信就不錯了，要經過自己判斷和篩選。 9.同情領導是不幸的開始。 10.同事打探你的工資，別傻傻實話實說，巧妙回復:別提了，除了吃吃喝喝，剩個千八百，你呢? 11.不要主動給別人提供幫忙，蕞忌諱主動。12.公司聚餐時不要DiYi個動筷子 13.領導的司機、秘書，你都得罪不起。別問為什么，問就是真理。 14.任何需要你簽字的地方，請務必保持十分的警惕。任何需要你點贊或夸獎的地方，千萬不要吝嗇。 15.公司組織的聚餐，能去就去，不是為了吃飯也不是去了能有什么好處。要是不去的話就會成為大家口中議論的焦點，這時候即使你有個小錯誤，都會被放大一萬倍。 #職場日常# #工作# #女性成長# #女性職場# #職場那些事兒# #強者思維# #人際關系# #為人處世# #職場干貨# #日常碎片PLOG#

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以前有個笑話說，順序很重要。 如果你是一個大學生，去酒店上班賺錢，大家就會覺得你很墮落。 但是如果你去酒店賺錢，然後考上大學，大家就會覺得你很上進。 這其實是真實情況啊！ 閩南狼（陳柏源）先是在中國發展，後來跟八炯合作了《中國統戰紀錄片》，變成了反共代表人物。 葉丙成教授過去在教育領域努力了數十年，專欄、演講無數，聲量大到甚至被認為已經是個「網紅」，後來洩漏性平案被害學生身分，卻不刪文、道歉而在演講時被學生抗議、網路上被砲轟。 巴菲特說：「要建立良好的聲譽，需要20年，但要毀掉良好的聲譽，只需要5分鐘。明白到這一點，你做人處事就會有很大的不同。」 陰德值這件事情，不是加加減剪，而是正負乘除。你過去做多少的努力，累積了多大的知名度，一但做錯了事，不是扣分，而是過去的累積會直接乘上一個負號，知名度有多大，負面觀感就有多大。原本支持的人大多不會站出來說話，原本討厭的人一定站出來踩一腳，天堂直接掉到地獄，不會有人管什麼比例原則、功過相抵。 那該怎麼辦？ 承擔不起的人，就選擇低調吧！ 承擔得起的人，就選擇當個人渣吧！你看人渣文本一開始就說自己是人渣，做什麼事情別人無論怎麼罵好像都顯得軟弱無力，因為人家一開始的人設就沒有在追求高大上啊！人不可能不犯錯，但人設越正面的人，犯錯就越慘，就像一張紙越白，不小心滴到了墨水就越明顯。但如果這張紙很多元，說不定滴了一滴墨水，反而特別有風格。

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How many children or people are are totally unvaccinated? Is that caught like where where do you find? Is it just the parents that stepped up and said, I would think that's a very small percentage because so many of us blindly followed, you know, uh, the recommendations to vaccinate children. Yeah, it's less than 1% of the public. So, uh, the Amish are a perfect example of a large, uh, group of people who are, uh, largely unvaccinated. And there's no autism. We can't find an autistic kid who was unvaccinated. It's very, very rare in the Amish community, very, very rare. You won't find kids with ADD, with autoimmune disease, with panda pans, with epilepsy. You just don't find any of these chronic diseases in the Amish. And you know, the US government has been studying the Amish for decades, but there's never been a report out to the public. The reason, of course, is it would it would show that, oh, if you don't follow our guidelines, you're going to end up healthier. That's why there's no report. After decades of studying the Amish, there's no report because the report would be devastating to the narrative. It would show that the CDC has been harming the public for decades and saying nothing and burying all the data.

國軍近年大量採購不對稱打擊武器,根據現有的 武器,有像是Switchblade自殺無人機(19英 里)、HIMARS多管火箭(186英里)與MQ-9B 死神無人機(1750英里) 搭配標槍、TOW系 列等反裝甲飛彈近程部署。 這種組合形成由內而外、由陸到海的渦輪延攻擊 網絡,範圍甚至可以到達北京,要不是國軍人少 了點,反攻大陸都不是太大問題 MQ-9B Reaper drone, 1,150 miles JAPAN Bay of Bengal S. KOREA East China Sea CHINA Altius-600M drone, 273 miles HIMARS, 186 miles Switchblade drone, 19 miles MYANMAR TAIWAN PACIFIC OCEAN (BURMA) VIETNAM Javelin missile, 2 miles TOW 2A missile, 2 miles TOW 2B missile, 3 miles THAILAND South China Sea PHILIPPINES Philippine Sea

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1994年，奧尼爾在酒店發現一個落單的男孩，出于同情，他陪男孩玩了一下午，沒想到這個舉動，讓他賺了10個億。 2004年8月19日，紐約證券交易所外人頭攢動。谷歌公司正式掛牌上市，開盤價格遠超預期，這個成立僅六年的互聯網公司一舉創造了當年最令人矚目的IPO。在電視機前，NBA球星沙奎爾·奧尼爾默默注視著這一切，臉上露出欣慰的笑容。就在十年前，一次看似普通的邂逅，讓他成為了這家科技巨頭的早期投資者之一。 回到1994年的那個夏天，奧尼爾正處于職業生涯的上升期。那時的他雖然已經在NBA嶄露頭角，但還沒有后來＂大鯊魚＂的威名。作為一名身高2.16米、體重超過300斤的籃球運動員，他的體格在人群中總是格外醒目。 那是一個炎熱的下午，奧尼爾隨隊來到洛杉磯四季酒店。酒店大堂里游客、商務人士川流不息，前台排起了長隊。這位年輕的NBA球星并沒有仗著名氣要求特殊待遇，而是老老實實地站在隊伍中等待辦理入住手續。 四季酒店坐落在洛杉磯市中心，是當地著名的商務會議場所。那個時節正值旅游旺季，酒店里既有帶著行李箱的游客，也有西裝革履的商務人士。大堂里的水晶吊燈折射著午后的陽光，映照著來來往往的人群。 站在隊伍中的奧尼爾開始打量起周圍的環境。寬敞的大堂一角擺放著幾張真皮沙發，靠窗的位置有一張原木茶幾。在那里，一個大約八九歲的男孩獨自坐著，手里拿著一本漫畫書，看起來有些無聊。在這樣一個人來人往的場合，一個孩子獨處顯得格外引人注意。 從小就喜歡孩子的奧尼爾，敏銳地察覺到了這個情況的不妥。在那個年代，社會治安狀況并不像現在這樣完善，對于一個單獨待在酒店大堂的小男孩來說，潛在的安全隱患不容忽視。 經過一番考慮，奧尼爾跟隊友打了個招呼，便朝著男孩走去。這個舉動引起了周圍人的注意，畢竟一個身材魁梧的大個子走向一個孤單的小男孩，畫面確實有些特別。但奧尼爾沒有在意他人的眼光，他的注意力全在那個看起來有些孤單的男孩身上。 這個看似平常的午后，這個看似普通的舉動，卻成為了改變奧尼爾人生軌跡的重要一步。沒有人會想到，一個NBA球星和一個陌生男孩的偶遇，會在十年后演變成一個價值數十億美元的投資故事。而這一切的開始，僅僅源于一個職業運動員對一個孤單孩子的關心。 在那個沒有智能手機、社交媒體尚未普及的年代，人與人之間的交往還保持著最原始的溫度。奧尼爾選擇走向那個男孩的舉動，不帶任何功利心，僅僅是出于對孩子安全的擔憂。這種純粹的善意，最終給他帶來了意想不到的回報。 初次接觸時，小男孩對這個身材魁梧的陌生人顯得有些畏懼。畢竟在孩子的眼中，一個超過兩米的大個子確實有些嚇人。但奧尼爾很快就用他特有的幽默感化解了這份緊張。他蹲下身子，讓自己的視線與男孩平齊，用輕松的語氣詢問男孩為什麼獨自一人。 原來，男孩的父親正在酒店參加一場商務會議。由于會議內容都是成年人的話題，父親便安排兒子在大堂等待。為了讓時間過得更快些，奧尼爾提議和男孩玩起了簡單的籃球游戲。他用隨身攜帶的便攜籃球，教男孩一些基本的運球動作。很快，酒店大堂的一角就充滿了歡聲笑語。 這位NBA球星完全放下了明星的架子，像個大孩子似的和男孩玩得不亦樂乎。他們不僅玩籃球，還玩起了猜謎游戲。奧尼爾以他在菲尼克斯大學學習工商管理的見識，給男孩出了一些有趣的數學題。在這個過程中，男孩完全忘記了最初的拘謹，兩人相處得就像多年的朋友一般。 就在兩人玩得正高興時，一位西裝革履的男子匆忙走出電梯。看到自己的兒子正和一個巨人似的陌生人在玩耍，他的第一反應是驚慌。但當他走近認出這位＂巨人＂就是NBA新秀奧尼爾時，緊張的表情立即轉為驚喜。 在簡單寒暄后，男孩的父親向奧尼爾道謝。作為一名互聯網行業的創業者，他正在籌備一個新的搜索引擎項目。或許是被奧尼爾照顧孩子的舉動所感動，又或許是看中了這位NBA球星的商業價值，他向奧尼爾提出了投資邀請。 這個項目就是后來的谷歌。在交談中，奧尼爾展現出了超出常人預期的商業敏銳度。他詳細詢問了這個搜索引擎項目的商業模式、技術優勢和未來發展規劃。這些問題讓男孩的父親對這位年輕的NBA球星刮目相看。 回到酒店房間后，奧尼爾立即聯系了自己的經紀人，仔細分析這個投資機會。作為一個正在攻讀工商管理碩士學位的職業運動員，奧尼爾深知互聯網技術的發展潛力。經過深思熟慮，他決定投入100萬美元參與這個項目。 這個決定在當時看來是頗具冒險性的。要知道，在90年代中期，互聯網還處于發展初期，很多人都無法預見它的未來。但奧尼爾的商業直覺告訴他，這可能是一個改變未來的機會。事實證明，這個源于善意之舉的投資決定，最終為他帶來了數十億美元的回報。 時光流轉，當年那個在酒店大堂偶遇的小男孩，如今已經長大成人。而那次看似普通的邂逅，不僅展現了一位體育明星的善良本性，更成就了一個傳奇的投資故事。

防人之心不可無～ 有時候，人與人之間的相處，最難的不是距離遠的人，而是離你很近，總是笑臉迎人，卻在背後動刀的小人。 最近一個粉絲遇到這樣的事情，私訊跟我抱怨，並要我寫出來提醒大家….. 她說她在公司是個很努力的人，工作細心、對人和氣，常常加班幫忙收尾也不多說什麼；她剛進公司沒多久，就跟一位看起來很親切的同事走得比較近。那位同事平常總是笑嘻嘻的，工作上也會幫她，私底下還會聊心事，她原本以為遇到了一個可以信任的人。結果，某天她被主管叫去辦公室，當面被質疑資料處理有誤、態度不夠積極，讓她一頭霧水。 後來才發現，那位「好同事」私底下早就在主管面前說她壞話，甚至還偷偷改過她做的報告，把責任推到她身上。她說那一刻真的很難受，不只是因為工作出了問題，而是那個她信任的人，其實早就在背後設局。 她問我：「是不是我太笨，才會相信人？」 我回她：「你不是笨，是你真誠，但不是每個人都值得我們的真誠。」 她覺得很可怕，怎麼會有人的心這麼壞：「我該找她攤牌嗎？」 我想了一下說：「她應該是忌妒你，ㄧ直在觀察你，可能早就想找機會踩你上去。只是你太信她，把什麼都跟她說，沒留後路。如果你有確切的證據，應該找她講清楚！」 粉絲：「我會，我已經有告知主管，主管也尊重我，要我想清楚如何處理，她會協助。」 我：「那就好，祝福你！」 粉絲：「我現在學乖了。再怎麼熟，私事少說，尤其跟同事。人情是很脆弱的東西，笑容背後藏著什麼，真的看不出來。」 她這番話讓我想起自己以前。老實說，我也曾經很相信人。不管是工作上，還是私底下，只要別人對我好一點，我就會真心相待。那時候總覺得「我對你好，你也會對我好」，結果不如我想像，我也曾被講過壞話、也曾被誤會，甚至把信任給錯了人，還倒過來被利用。 這種事真的發生過幾次之後，我才開始學會保護自己。 不是變得多冷漠，而是懂得什麼該說、什麼該留；誰是值得深交的，誰只能當點頭之交。 其實防人不是要你懷疑所有人，而是讓你在信任別人之前，先把自己照顧好。 曾經看過專家說過，在職場要明哲保身，千萬記住幾個小原則 1.不輕易談論自己的私事，尤其在職場或公開場合。 2.有些讚美聽聽就好，不代表對方真的站在你這邊。 3.留紀錄、講重點，不讓別人有機會扭曲你說的話。 4.對人友善沒錯，但別讓每個人都太靠近你的核心。 不是有一句話：「害人之心不可有，但防人之心不可無。」 這句話，聽起來很老派，卻很真實。 你可以善良，但也要有保護自己的力量。 畢竟，真正的成熟不是變得多冷，而是什麼時候該冷靜，是不是？

老闆，請問咱們五一放幾天假？ 11天。 11天？這麼長時間。 不是11天，而是1天。 21天？那我不是可以出去旅遊了？ 不是21天，就是1天。 91天？那帶薪嗎？ 我咋跟你說不明白，251天。 什麼？251天？那行，老闆，那咱明年見，我提前給您拜個早年。 老闆，請問咱們五一放幾天假？

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