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『快樂比任何學問都難』

人貧困的時候不快樂;
富裕的時候也不快樂。

有工作的時候不快樂,
失業當然也不會快樂。

健康的時候不快樂,
生病時候更不快樂。

自小我們學習許多課程,學數學「1+1=2」「9-5=4」,但我們沒有學過人生何時該加、何時該減才會快樂!

我們的家庭教育和「社會」大學,拼命地教人如何盤算、如何奪取、如何自我保護…所有該教人「快樂」方法不教,反而教的儘是慫恿人憤怒、憂鬱、沮喪的「本事」。

2010年荷蘭好聲音冠軍得主 Martin Hurkens,他在得獎之後走到街頭演唱「You Raise Me Up」,其影片在Youtube上已數億人觀看。

他原是一名麵包師傅,擁有荷蘭一家麵包店的部份股權。

金融危機後,麵包店撐不下去,賣給了連鎖商家,他失業了。

整整兩年,遊蕩街頭,尋找工作,包括遠赴巴黎。

他的女兒知道父親除了做麵包,還唱了一口好嗓音;2010年為他偷偷報名「荷蘭好聲音」。

一位55歲的老頭站上舞台,高唱「公主徹夜未眠」,贏得冠軍寶座。

接下來電視台及舞台劇邀約不斷,Martin沒有選擇立刻出名賺錢的「本能」慾望;他選擇了「街頭」演唱,唱起祕密花園(Secret Garden)的歌曲「You Raise Me Up」。

「每當我心情低落,噢,我的靈魂如此疲憊;當麻煩接踵而至,我的內心沉重不安,然後,我在寂靜默默等待,直到你出現,坐於我身旁。你鼓舞了我,…所以,我能站在群山之巔,你鼓舞了我,使我能遊走驚濤駭浪…因為你的鼓舞,我超越了自己。」

Martin選擇的街頭,那正是他失業潦倒、痛苦匱乏的時最熟悉的角落。

Martin知道,街頭總有許多飄零的心。

他選擇了一個讓別人快樂,然後自己感覺有意義的方式回答他剛剛獲得的「好聲音冠軍」寶座。

排除計算、慾望、不急於成名後,他反而成了全球最令人感佩的歌者。

什麼是快樂?快樂的定義可能很簡單,

「今天的你比昨日的你慈悲、感恩。」

我們最終都要遠行,好好習得人生減法,早日懂得「快樂」這門課。永遠相信明天的朝陽,會有新的音符。和未來乾一杯吧!

文中提到的 Martin Hurkens 在得獎之後走到街頭演唱的「You Raise Me Up」, 視頻如下:https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Vxx5DxATibI

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